Women can call men for sex as much as men call women for it

Thanks to this woman who knows and says what she wants

Wives, slaves, whores, objects. Those are words that used to describe women of old times. Fathers, brothers, men of yesteryears used to sell their women and marry them for a price. It did not even matter which family a woman was born into, rich or poor, she could never escape the fate that had been laid out ahead of her. She could not say no to the plans arranged for her. When she wants something, she could not even ask for it because it is viewed as an act of boldness or indiscipline. She could not decide who her husband would be or not say no when called for sex. She is expected to oblige and not say a word, no matter how disgusting or painful it was. Men had little to no respect for women back then, until she started speaking up for herself and fighting for freedom. She is fed up of being treated poorly, unfairly and used so she demanded equality. After centuries of defiance and discourse, she was finally allowed to express herself and exercise freewill.

Sex is one of the most liberating act of freewill. Freewill, as we all know, is bestowed to both men and women. It is the freedom to choose and do what we want. There is nothing more liberating than the feeling of being completely vulnerable and empowered with someone as you feel the release of whatever inhibition each of you hold. Therefore, women can call men for sex as much as  men call women for it, without guilt or shame.

Just an equally free and brave woman

Women enjoy sex as much as men do, when done right at least. As much as we would want to deny it to conform to society’s  double standards, it is as true as women getting menstruation. Getting laid makes  one feel attractive, wanted, empowered and loved. Why wouldn’t a woman like it when it helps her body release oxytocin, the so called love hormone? It is responsible for that after-sex glow and the feel good vibe someone gets after a good fuck, since it stimulates the production of endorphins. Yes, I said the F-word! The finest word I could think of right now. The most common expression you would hear among a lot of countries. Fornication to those who prefer formal fuckery. Sex is self-expression in itself. It is the most intimate form of body language one can use to express how attracted a person is to another. Feel  free to put those hormones, naturally produced by your body , to good use. Your body’s natural processes cause your drive for coitus, so there should be no guilt in doing it. Why should it be a taboo when even the human body is designed for it? Indulge yourself and release those inhibitions, vixens!

Having sex is not something to be ashamed of. It should be enjoyed and used to one’s advantage. It should not be taken against someone if the person loves a good fuck. Slut shaming has become so mainstream that people forget it is only natural to crave for sex. It is innate among creatures to procreate. It is  even essential for survival. If the act was too sinful, why would the first man and woman be instructed to multiply? How do you think they did it, by learning math? Instead of minding others' ecstatic sex life, why not try improving yours? It helps relieve stress and may make your day a whole lot better. Go on and thank me later.

Sex should not have double standards either. Most often, people say a man is awesome for having sex with a lot of women but say horrible things to a woman who had sex with a number of men. Women may have equal rights with men but can’t enjoy them as much as men can. A woman may take a man’s responsibility in the society but she should not do the same things he does. She should not be talking about sex as much as he talks and thinks about it. A man can sleep with a multitude of women but women should not be getting down and dirty with a lot of men. How on Earth would that be fair? Don’t we all love to exclaim equality?

Clearly not my after-sex pic, just saying you should love your body

Sex connects people, and it does not have to be limited to two. If a person loves doing it with just one person, that is good. If a person likes doing it with multiple people, that is also good. For as long as everyone is practicing safe sex, there is nothing wrong with it. Any kind of party is a good way to socialize and connect. Do it with whomever and however way you want it but be responsible and put your safety first. Who knows how many of one’s friends (or their friend’s friends) would like to get down and dirty with that person? It only means more people getting the natural benefits of fucking. It means more people having their stress level reduced. Isn’t that good news? Don’t we all want to help each other become healthier? After all, as cliché as it may sound, the more the merrier.

Women are finally treated as men’s equals, or at least what we were made to believe. Gone are the days of sexism when women did not have the same rights as men did. If this equality is true then women can call men for sex as much as men call women for it. A woman should not be judged for enjoying a good fuck as much as a man does. She should not be judged for craving it like how a man looks forward to it. It must be treated as naturally as men having boners. It must be as trivial as men wanting to get laid, almost all the time. It is only normal, as Abraham Maslow indicated in his hierarchy of needs. Sex is among a human’s physiological needs to survive, so it never should have been a taboo in the first place. If it is as basic as eating, would you laugh at someone for getting hungry? If it is as important as needing air, would you ridicule a person for breathing? If the drive for sex is as natural as getting thirsty, would you judge a person for drinking water? If not, why would you shame a woman for wanting and having sex?